let's get it started!

bonjour,


let's start this now!

lagi banyak lagi bagus ;)

xoxo

2014 is coming real soon! :O

bonjour,

2014 is approaching in 3 days...

you guys ready with new resolutions?? "new me" spirit?

can't believe another year has passed...

i hope i make the best out of it...

i have lots of resolutions :p

i think the most important thing is to be more matured...

because sometime i can see lots of elders are not that wise actually...

so we better gain more knowledge and know the do's and don'ts in life...

it's better to learn from our mistakes and other's mistakes...

life is too short to make lots of mistakes...

we could DIE anytime so we better bring out the best in us...

and also not to give up easily when things get rough...

challenges are made to test us so that we can be better...

wishing for a better health, wealth and chance to travel more ;)

for a better future! cheers :D

xoxo

cheers to forever :)

bonjour,


"for better or worse, till death do us apart"

everybody is getting married nowadays. huhu...

xoxo

Mixed feelings.

Bonjour,

So I'm happy and sad at the same time due to the fact that my cousin is getting married this Saturday. 

*sob sob moment*

Cray :p

Xoxo

positive vibe only.

bonjour,


brain is a complex organ...

it can twists our mind from something simple to something complicated...

good things can be bad because we think too much...

owh God, i'm not strong enough to fight the evil spirit...

i want my heart to be at peace...

i want all of us to be nice and respect each other...

only positive vibe is allowed...

please...

xoxo

need to sweat!

bonjour,


i'm feeling under the weather today,

somehow i choose not to manjakan diri since it won't help either,

i just need to sweat! *sigh

a quick review;

recently i just watched insidious 2 with him,

and i must say the plot twist was good!

especially the scene where the future Josh was actually there when he was a kid and communicated!

don't you wanna meet your future-self? creepy? hikhik

maybe i should watch another horror movie to pump up my adrenaline and sweat and hopefully feel better!

till then, have a good night! :')

xoxo

to travel is to live. :)

bonjour,

time to save more money again :)

xoxo

health.

bonjour,


so lately i'd been going to IJN a lot since my uncle is admitted there...

the surgery to fix his valves had been done yesterday, Alhamdulillah...

anyhow, seeing another family members going through the hardship is heartbreaking..

i thought after my late mom's sickness, there'll be no other diseases strike any of my family members...

i guess i was wrong...

it makes me realise how important to take care of our health...

if you don't love yourself enough, at least think of your husband/wife and kids...

they need you the most, so please take care of your health so that you can always be there for them...

i know death is within Allah's power, but we should try as hard as we can to stay fit aite...

and secondly, please cover yourself and family with insurance...

it gives LOTS of medical benefits!!

and if you die at least your heir has money to go on with life...

trust me, don't depend on other family members to help us all the time...

they are not being selfish but they also have to take care of their own family members and focus on work commitment for example...

that's all i can say for now...

i'm late for my 4 pm class! :O


xoxo

56.

bonjour,


if my mom is still alive, she's also will turn 56 years old this year...

well, happy 56th independence day Malaysia!

p/s : i'm so craving for lamb chop right now. must get it by this one week! 

xoxo

maaf zahir batin.

bonjour,


it's 10th Syawal...

we're celebrating raya for more than a week already...

i guess this is the time we forgive and forget any wrong doings...

it's easy to say "maaf zahir batin" right?

but what most important is to actually mean it and never repeat the mistakes again...

we only live once, we better stop messing around and hurt other people...

respect others, don't do anything that break people apart...

be nice always, not only during Ramadan or Syawal...

ingat sebelum buat jahat kat orang, ade kemungkinan orang lain boleh buat 2 kali or 10 kali lebih jahat kat kita...

bad consequences always happen to bad people...


xoxo

Ramadan Kareem :)

bonjour,


Alhamdulillah we are given the chance to meet Ramadhan again...

 point to ponder :')

xoxo

jangan kaitkan.

bonjour,


from my observation, they are a lot of holier than thou people nowadays.

just a thought, no matter how bad a person is, please respect their family members when giving advice.

kalo orang buat silap direct kat kita, paham la nak tegur, tapi kadang2 tak buat silap kat kita pun. 

tak elok kaitkan parents orang yang dah meninggal dunia bila seseorang tu buat silap.

tak nampak lebih baik pun kita kalo buat macam tu.

and don't blame the kids as well for their parents' fault.

this is what i see from our culture, "Mak bapak tak ajar ke?"

no need to raise that up man...

we don't know what happen behind close doors...

just think what if the same things happen to you?

are we that perfect for Allah and for our parents, or kids?

no, right?

so tak perlu kaitkan agama dan keluarga.

yang silap tu kita, dan teguran pun ada adabnya. 

don't blame the religion and family members.

don't judge.


xoxo

half year is gone. :O

bonjour,

so it is june now, mid june to be exact...

and i just finished my exam! yehooo!

it's good to just be relaxed for a while...

and forget about the workloads...

even though it's kinda boring sometime :p

well, i kinda appreciate being a student because we can still enjoy life as compare to when we are working...

as much as we need money by earning salary, 

but sometime when people focus too much on work, they don't even spend their money on something satisfying...

once you worked, it's all about paying bills...

you tend to forget to travel, take a stroll at the park or even watch movies...

so it is very important to make time for yourself, your work and your loved one...  

time management is the key...  

working is a huge commitment, so while you are still studying you better make it worth...

xoxo

GE13

bonjour,


congrats to the winning party!

selamat menerajui kepimpinan Malaysia!

dear leaders, please work hard for the people...

trust has been given to you, so please give your very best effort for the country...

for the losing party, try harder next time...

and by the way, kalah tak bermakna tak boleh berkhidmat pada rakyat...

bukan semua orang perlu bagi tau benda baik diorang buat...

being a leader means you have to serve for the civillians...

it's not about winning and having power...

accept the loss and move on... be classy okay...

and please stop talking about unfair elections, blackout etc...(when there was actually no blackout) 

people already made a choice, it's a democratic country...

there must be reasons why they didn't or did choose you at the first place...

cheers for unity! 

xoxo

Giler Selamba :)

bonjour,


so have you guys watched this video?

actually there are other videos that she made...

and i must say, i'm impressed with her opinions...

she's so selamba (of course) but most important thing is what she said are true...

just some people who can't handle the truth and have high ego, they don't really like what she said..

and those small minded people always blame on women...

we're talking about safety here...

we humans should protect each other...

and find ways to curb the criminals around us...

i used to read "Telling it straight" by Marina Mahathir...

and it is stated that men select women as targets because they think they are helpless..

and i agree charity begins at home...

we must teach our kids to respect people...

control your desire and avoid doing something bad...

don't simply blame others using the excuses that they provoke you...

what do they do that provoke you so much to rape her for example?

is she doing a pole dance at the bus stop while waiting for a ride?

is she really wearing bikini to work?

i know the aurat is not prefect yet, but slowly we'll change for better...

and most important thing is what  we are wearing is modest and suitable with the events...

so it's like the next time i see people with silly faces, i can just punch them and say "your stupid face provokes me". heh

from the so called advices at the youtube comments, i'm not really impressed with people who take safety from granted...

and btw, if you wanna advice women, talk nicely...

don't curse and scold them like you already knew them for 10 years...

kenal dulu orang tu, baru la slow talk... tu pun ade caranye, sebab women are sensitive...

kata dibuat oleh tulung rusuk lelaki, so bayangkan makin kamu cuba bengkokkan tulang itu maka patahlah ia...

seriously, women will become so liat to change for better if you don't know how to advice...

and most important thing is, stick to the topic please...

these youtube comments really are out of topic...

tengok substance die bercakap...

and let's discuss on how to deal with it...

tak payah komen la die punye appearance...

our parents kan dah ajar don't judge the book by its cover...

xoxo

being independent...

bonjour,


so i was going through fynn jamal's instagram...

and i realised how lucky was her son to have good parents...

parents who took care of him when he was sick...

i was just touched...

you know being independent sometime is tiring...

it is suffocating, trust me...

sometime when we're sick, we want someone to take care of us...

someone that can take us to the clinic, feed us, prepare us with the hot shower, give us medicine...

when we are weak, we want to share the burden with someone...

i guess that's the beauty of having a family...

but i cannot sigh just because i don't have one...

i know God is testing me because He believes i can handle it...


xoxo

marriage :)

bonjour,


so i read dr halina's blog ...

and i really love her latest topic...

it goes like this...

Marriage is a lot of work..

Wedding is fun, honeymoon phase is a.w.e.s.o.m.e. but marriage is really a lot of work! You’re juggling your work, daily house chores, children and husband every single day. If you don’t enjoy what you’re doing, you’re killing yourself slowly inside because you barely have time for yourself.

Whenever I see an old couple walking together holding hands, I really envy them. I want be like them. Even after soooo long, it’s still the same person they are walking with, same hand they are holding and they never get tired. Isn’t that sweet?

To me, marriage is about two people committed themselves to each other, sharing the same desire to spend their lifetime together, and willingness to be there for one another. In Al-Quran, it’s clearly stated “They are clothing for you and you’re clothing for them..” (Al-Baqarah, verse 187). Like our clothing that covers and protect our body, couples defend each other’s honour. They protect and enhance each other’s beauty while shielding that which must be hidden, according to Allah’s rules.

and that's love...

through thick and thin till death do us apart...

:')

xoxo

The "Up" experience. :)

bonjour,


today is the last day for the hot air balloon festival in Putrajaya...

i always want to ride on a hot air balloon...

i know it's not that thrilling...

but today's experience was just beyond words can tell :)

the mood, the scenery, the ambience, being on top of the world with your loved one...

it was just meaningful to me * senyum sampai ke telinga :D

reminded me a lot with "Up" and "The Ugly Truth" movie... So romantic...

plus it's not that easy to ride one...

in fact there's a man drove his family all the way from Penang just to ride a hot air balloon! :')

so this type of event really gave us an opportunity to experience it...

but of course we had to queue as early as 4am for the ticket...

and yes, me and fadhli did that... hikhik...

our balloon for today :)

the view from the top

oz! 

hours of waiting for 5 minutes in heaven but it's all worth it ;)

overall it was a memorable experience...

looking forward for more great experiences :)

xoxo

take it slow.

bonjour,


budak zaman sekarang sentiasa mahu senang.

tak salah. saya pun nak senang.

tapi kena la bersusah dahulu.

jangan la expect fresh graduate starting gaji RM 3000 terus nak beli honda civic.

take it slow.

buy cheaper car first, then bila ada rezeki lagi beli yang besar plak.

ukur baju di badan sendiri.

usaha lagi, Allah tolong.

be patient. take it slow.

jangan expect hidup macam menang lottery.

dapat lump sum hari ni, and boleh shopping spree.

kalo harta pusaka bukan sampai 7 keturunan tak habis, tak apa.

take it slow.

work hard nanti merasa la manisnya.

:')


xoxo

Two & Two

bonjour,


watch this video...

that's how malaysian schools look like...

and the reason why i hate school so much...

it's because i can't stand up for myself...

yeah, i always skipped school back then...

not that i was lazy but the school always wanted us to follow the rules blindly...

we, the new generation want to be told nicely the REASONS behind the do's and don'ts

we don't take orders but we love to see facts before we agree on opinions...

nowadays not just students but adults also are keen towards the freedom of speech...

but these adults are also the one who used to advise us "Dengar cakap cikgu, jangan melawan."

irony is it? don't blame the school totally...

our culture and up bringing also play part in this situation...

when we were young, whenever we asked questions to adults, they will reply "Pergi main jauh2, jangan ganggu orang tua bercakap"

this automatically turn off our motivations to seek more knowledge by questioning...

when we go to higher level of education, they say "Kalo tak paham tanya cikgu dalam kelas"

but they already instilled that culture not to ask, and even if you do ask, they won't give us answers...

because we are kids to them, so we should be ignored...

well for me, both adults and younger generation should learn the arts of debate...

ask question nicely and answer the questions nicely (with concrete reasons and facts)


xoxo

dear taylor swift...

bonjour,


 dear taylor swift,

 i love your songs, the melody etc are good...

 but as years go by, i realise your lyrics always focus on your past life...

 don't you ever move on?

and just because a guy doesn't choose you, you can't assume his girlfriend are bad etc...

(it's not like she does take away your guy in a mean manner)

 you keep focusing on the unhealthy side of your past relationships...

from tumblr :p

i think you should just let go and focus on the present...

 your soulmate may come one day...

 just stop looking back, okay...


 


 maybe you can learn from J.Lo...

 she's happy with her own life and let her ex fiancee be happy with his own life... :)


xoxo

2013.

Bonjour,


We all need sparks and fireworks in life...

Of course the positive sparks and fireworks...

This 2013, I wish more happiness and blessings...

Hopefully we all can be a better person and learn from the past mistakes, never repeat them...

Amin. :)

xoxo

Monologue.

Bonjour,


God took away my dad when i was a child,

He took my mom when I was about to turn into an adult,

He didn't give me siblings,

He made me escape from the bad people,

He made me stay with good ones,

And now I pray that I won't lose any more important people in my life,

I deserve to be happy,

Even there are still bad people who disturb my happiness,

He still make me strong and help me to fight them,

God still love me,

I should love myself,

I hope others will love themselves too,

Find your own happiness and never destroy others' life,

Don't you want more blessings from Him?


Xoxo