bonjour,
actually it's been a while i haven't read Malay books...
last time i read was Lagenda Budak Setan about 1 1/2 year ago...
my late mom also din't really push me in reading Malay novels because she said it was full of crap...
if you wanna read them, go for Malay literature like A Samad Said, etc, she said...
then one day i was told to read this novel...
i've to say it's something new in Malaysian essay...
the mentality is different from all the love Malay novels available...
i learnt that guys are actually blurred when it comes to relationship...
there are lots of gentlemen rules available, go check out tumblr once in a while...
people said the story is sad, for me, i banyak geram when reading it...
because as a woman, we know it's a big no-no to date someone who is close to your ex girlfriend...
and yes, mira shouldn't let her boyfriend so close with the girls that are close to her at first (doesn't matter friends, siblings, cousins)
we got limits in socializing as much as we want to be good to our spouse's friends, siblings, etc...
and apart from that i wonder how does Erica felt when Nami wrote his past love life into a novel...
yeah, she seems supportive but we never know what's inside her heart...
even open minded mat salleh also got sentap when Ted Mosby always hang out with ex girlfriend Robin...
(and that's the reason most girls always break up with him because his past is still lingered around)
anyhow i see Erica and Nami pretty much lovey dovey, so i wish them the best... :)
and i hope there are lots of people are like this author and lots more...
because you guys are open minded and always look things through...
in fact you guys pretty much don't care about those who are judging your work...
wish i have that courage... ;)
xoxo
Erica's here. Hehehe..
ReplyDeleteI've got nothing against any of Nami's exes.
Ez? Oh my! She's a sister to me.
Elly? She's an angel.
It's gonna be a long comment if I tell what I really feels. LOL.
I do get jealous sometimes but I understand.
We can never erase the past.
And these girls (including other exes) made him happy. And that is worth everything.
Not caring about what people say?
Well, there are millions of people in the world - each with their own opinions. Satisfy all? Impossible.
To me, I just do what I like - expressing my feelings and just write. It gives such a satisfaction.
Thanks for mentioning me - which leads to this blog - it took me a while to read it because I don't really like to open links on twitter (most of them are serious bullshit. Hahaha - including the bots etc.)
Lastly, thank you for supporting our relationship. =)
~terpaksa comment as Anonymous - malas nak log in. Hehehe~
good for you, sis. i know most girls will get sentap when their boyfriends are talking about exes. including me, no doubt.
ReplyDeletebut yeah like you said, we all got different opinions so maybe what's okay for certain people may not okay to others.
anyway,to your boyfriend Nami, all the best on the new book! :D