Parenthood

Bonjour,


Not a parent yet, one day i hope ;)

Just wanna share this quote though...

"Children who have come across a parents immorality, cheating or sin, mostly suffer very deep scars silently well into their adulthood.

Don't allow your children to be a witness to your weakness. In fact quit it & see how successful you become by the will of the Almighty.

You will be surprised at how much your children know about your "private life". They hurt & bleed silently. Quit & change that. "

-Mufti Ismail Menk

Nice one.

P/s: don't condemn the kids because of the parents' faults. Be fair. You can.


Xoxo

Respect part 2.

Bonjour,


How to be respected?

Is it enough with having a good education and being nice all the time?

Because as far as I'm concerned my late mum who was super nice also ditindas.

Or are we supposed to upgrade ourselves and live at the elite residential?

Sebab kalo pembawakan diri dari tempat elit die tak selalu pegi kedai biasa2 dan tidak dilayan biasa2.

Are we going to be so pious so that we can show the innocent side of us?

Still people keji and condemn whenever we do mistakes even it's a small one.

How to be respected?

It needs to be earned like most said.

But we always respect others and never harm them, why they still mistreat us?

Something is wrong with us all.

We let the devils consume us.

No patience. Just anger and hatred.

People just don't respect others sometime, even you're a woman.

Enough seeing men humiliate and shout the women on the road.

If they have balls they should just fight among men, tengking perempuan watpe? Pengecut.

So how to feel safe again?

Yes, we can say it's a challenge but don't you think we should fix it?


Xoxo

Bring it!

Bonjour,


Self motivation : fall down SEVEN times, get up EIGHT times!!!!


Xoxo

Spoiler : Istanbul Aku Datang ;)

Bonjour,


So i've watched the movie yesterday...

It was great! Lots of relationship things we could learn :)

It taught us that if we are in a relationship, we have to commit...

No matter how busy we are, we have to spend time with loved ones...

Mufti Ismail Menk : If you have no time for your spouse why did you get married?

If you have no time for your children, then why did you have them?

And see how cruel Azad a.k.a Tomok...

Making excuses of being lonely and find other girl while away...

They should fix their relationship not finding other person if the relationship is boring etc... Nauzubillah...

But Beto did act very well! So natural!

He's the nice guy and willing to defend Lisa...

So sweet when he took her to the shower and washed her hair *melting

And of course they took a vespa ride touring the city! I want to ride on a vespa too! :p

Well Red Film again didn't disappoint the viewers... A quality movie indeed... :)

Xoxo

wali.

bonjour,


i did go through gossip column and i must say i'm still in learning process...

but what i found makes me think hard...

i think everybody should think hard when it comes to this...

don't blame the kids for the parent's fault...

just be better for your family...

if you can't be better for them, at least don't make things hard for them...

let your kids be happy...

Islam is fair...

xoxo