Giler Selamba :)

bonjour,


so have you guys watched this video?

actually there are other videos that she made...

and i must say, i'm impressed with her opinions...

she's so selamba (of course) but most important thing is what she said are true...

just some people who can't handle the truth and have high ego, they don't really like what she said..

and those small minded people always blame on women...

we're talking about safety here...

we humans should protect each other...

and find ways to curb the criminals around us...

i used to read "Telling it straight" by Marina Mahathir...

and it is stated that men select women as targets because they think they are helpless..

and i agree charity begins at home...

we must teach our kids to respect people...

control your desire and avoid doing something bad...

don't simply blame others using the excuses that they provoke you...

what do they do that provoke you so much to rape her for example?

is she doing a pole dance at the bus stop while waiting for a ride?

is she really wearing bikini to work?

i know the aurat is not prefect yet, but slowly we'll change for better...

and most important thing is what  we are wearing is modest and suitable with the events...

so it's like the next time i see people with silly faces, i can just punch them and say "your stupid face provokes me". heh

from the so called advices at the youtube comments, i'm not really impressed with people who take safety from granted...

and btw, if you wanna advice women, talk nicely...

don't curse and scold them like you already knew them for 10 years...

kenal dulu orang tu, baru la slow talk... tu pun ade caranye, sebab women are sensitive...

kata dibuat oleh tulung rusuk lelaki, so bayangkan makin kamu cuba bengkokkan tulang itu maka patahlah ia...

seriously, women will become so liat to change for better if you don't know how to advice...

and most important thing is, stick to the topic please...

these youtube comments really are out of topic...

tengok substance die bercakap...

and let's discuss on how to deal with it...

tak payah komen la die punye appearance...

our parents kan dah ajar don't judge the book by its cover...

xoxo

being independent...

bonjour,


so i was going through fynn jamal's instagram...

and i realised how lucky was her son to have good parents...

parents who took care of him when he was sick...

i was just touched...

you know being independent sometime is tiring...

it is suffocating, trust me...

sometime when we're sick, we want someone to take care of us...

someone that can take us to the clinic, feed us, prepare us with the hot shower, give us medicine...

when we are weak, we want to share the burden with someone...

i guess that's the beauty of having a family...

but i cannot sigh just because i don't have one...

i know God is testing me because He believes i can handle it...


xoxo

marriage :)

bonjour,


so i read dr halina's blog ...

and i really love her latest topic...

it goes like this...

Marriage is a lot of work..

Wedding is fun, honeymoon phase is a.w.e.s.o.m.e. but marriage is really a lot of work! You’re juggling your work, daily house chores, children and husband every single day. If you don’t enjoy what you’re doing, you’re killing yourself slowly inside because you barely have time for yourself.

Whenever I see an old couple walking together holding hands, I really envy them. I want be like them. Even after soooo long, it’s still the same person they are walking with, same hand they are holding and they never get tired. Isn’t that sweet?

To me, marriage is about two people committed themselves to each other, sharing the same desire to spend their lifetime together, and willingness to be there for one another. In Al-Quran, it’s clearly stated “They are clothing for you and you’re clothing for them..” (Al-Baqarah, verse 187). Like our clothing that covers and protect our body, couples defend each other’s honour. They protect and enhance each other’s beauty while shielding that which must be hidden, according to Allah’s rules.

and that's love...

through thick and thin till death do us apart...

:')

xoxo