just listen...

bonjour,

i wanna talk about the art of listening...(is it an art? whatever :P)

it seems like nowadays when a person has problem, people around her tend to turn their back away form her...

they are not willing to listen to her story; just to ease her pain...

maybe they only give her a few shots...

if she constantly has problem, people will lose interest...

i don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing...

but seriously, she just wants to be heard...

why is it so hard for others to listen...

some people always ask,

"why do people always seek us only when they have problem?"

but think about it...

aren't you doing the same thing when you have problem...?

perhaps they don't feel or understand that person's pain at that moment...

that is why they just turn their deaf ears to her story...

no wonder some people are willing to pay hundreds of ringgit per session of therapy...

it's not because they have mental illness but they just want to be heard...

come on guys, just be patient...

there's nothing wrong to just lend your ears for a while...

just put yourself in that situation at that moment...

you too will feel miserable and lost if you keep things or problem to yourself...

for a while, don't be selfish...

be empathy because the world does not always evolve around you...

and this is also a reminder to myself...

hope we can be better in person... ;)

xoxo